TwoSix
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I skip that problem by simply not having those options open and accessible to the players. Nothing is chosen, everything is negotiated.That tends to lead into the Prestige Class problem where people are eventually going to skip the required plot beats just so they can play what they want to play.
Its one of those things where one has to be conscious of how people are playing the game and embrace it. Probably the wisest design decision from WOTC that they haven't repeated that mistake in two editions.