Not richer in GP, higher in clout & soft power within society. Instead of wealth the backgrounds with standing set players up to expect that their PC deserves undue clout & access when they choose a background with standing in society like noble spy guild artisan & so on after seeing 20 pages of blurbs & artwork misleading expectations. It makes for the difference between "is it reasonable that my character might have met xxx" & "I approach xxx to discuss his ties working for my family/guild/etc so we can [plotstuff]". When it's just only one player among many who is mislead it's no big deal for a dm "worth their salt" but when it's multiple players it turns into a regular disruption with the players reinforcing each other's bad expectations caused by 20 pages of overly spotlighted optional things making it a bit more work to counter gracefully without repelling player investment in the world.
I'm glad that I finally understand what you're talking about. Myself, I've found players playing Nobles to be an interesting feature to the story of the game, and not a flaw. I can see how it
could be trouble in a case where the players have unreasonable expectations, the DM is not prepared for it, or the story being told has no place for it - but I don't think that's going to be a universal problem. That said, I'd absolutely back you that good advice (for both players and DMs) on how to work out that potential kink is important. I'm not sure that it's necessary to outlaw the Noble (or Peasant) backgrounds.
Part of the advice should, IMO, include toning down what a Noble IS in a fantasy setting. For example, on the Sword Coast, it's not like there's a single big country. Being a noble from Waterdeep doesn't necessarily give you a lot of clout when you're in Baldur's Gate. I mean, the other nobles will probably be more likely to speak to you than they would a peasant, but it's not like you can order around the Flaming Fist.
In fact, ALL the backgrounds essentially boil down to "You're part of THIS group. People from that group will see you as "one of their own". Other groups will see you as an outsider."
But I suspect that you and I have substantially different ideas on these things.
I feel like we've only exchanged a couple posts in a fairly brief time tonight & somehow the thread's page count has jumped by 3 pages since the start that I'm not really following though so I'm not sure if it's even relevant here anymore.
It was a tangent in the first place, but I am glad to come to an understanding with you, even if we don't agree. I at least see your point!