MoonSong
Rules-lawyering drama queen but not a munchkin
As a DM, I'm open to allow players to go nuts with their characters, but as a player I hate Mother-may-I for character creation.Yeah, with the assumption that if a player really wanted to swap out a stat upgrade or otherwise customize a background, I'd allow it as a DM. These are starting points to me, and if they fit as written, great, if not, ask and we'll change it.