At our tables, we only use racial ASIs because it's a fantasy game and we know that not all fantasy races are and should be equal, for one, and because it's part of the fantasy tropes to have clever gnomes and strong half-orcs (or whatever attributes we use for whatever races). And even the half-orc wizard can one day be more clever than most elves and show them up if it's what his story is about, so how is that a problem ? And in any case, PCs and NPCs don't have scores tattooed on their foreheads.
If people want to do differently at their tables, perfect, the option is there, and everyone is entitled to whatever they want in their game, I'm not judging.