delericho
Legend
Weird stuff, watching an argument I just saw spread across G+, Twitter, and Facebook. Sometimes I think the "nastiness" exhibited by RPG fans is a sign of a damaged community. I've seen it for 15 years, and been on the receiving end of it dozens of times. Then I think that perhaps the awesome part of us that lets us not grow up and enjoy escapism and gaming and pretending to be elves is the exactly same part as the really nasty part of us that lets us not grow up and be as cruel as children are to each other.
I don't think it's that. Rather, I think it's a combination of two things, the first of which is the "cleave to groups" thing that Umbran and others have mentioned.
The other is that when dealing with internal politics there seems to be an inverse correlation: the smaller the stakes, the nastier the arguments. Probably because the potential losses are so small people think it "doesn't matter", so they take the gloves off. Of course, that neglects that although the stakes in the main argument are very small, the collateral damage may be high indeed.