Celebrim
Legend
The characters I tend to get very definately are (frequently) not heroes. They're very much in the vein of Cugel the "Clever."
Well, the guy sitting over here is still not sure what you two are arguing about.
"For an Anti-Hero, winning the War is half the job.
Winning the Peace is the other half."
"For a Villain, winning the War is half the job.
Winning the Peace is the other half."
Methods and modes and goals may change, but the ethics of the protagonist don't change the fact that the protagonist is the one struggling - just who is cheering for him.
Besides which, Cugel the Clever meets the definition of hero for a certain standard of ethics. Mind you, I wouldn't recommend adopting those ethics, but I wouldn't recommend adopting the ethics of Achilles or any of the other Greek heroes either.
How did a side comment provoke this dispute anyway? Certainly nothing about the original aside implied that D&D heroes were always noble, and in fact quite the contrary. And just what are you two trying to prove?