does a nice, shy, meek guy have a chance in hell?

[Aaron L]

everyone, thank you so much. im not really sure what im going to do, but knowing that people actually care is more help then any of you will evr know. i dont realy have many freinds left, ive done something to drive them all away. i dont even get to game anymore. it really means so much to me that everyone is trying to help me. yes im drunk. dont think that its a frequent occurance tho, its just been the last week or so that its been like this.

and yes, i bathe regularly, i look failry decent, at lest as far as ive been told (and as far as im concerned i like teh way i look. if only i had some idea of what to do with my hair. this girl i know has been saying she was going to give me a hiarcut for a while now but i can never get over there to have her do it. no, shes got a boyfriend of a long time and is just being a friend )

well, the girl who i hang out with has a boyfriend who treats her like crap and wont leave his apartment no matter how much she wants him to, so she hangs out with me instead. its kind of a delicate situation, and i cant really call very much. shes gotten a job and hasnt been wanting to go out very much lately, though. i just hope it isnt a permanent thing, and she isnt getting rid of me now that she has her own regular supply of money.

i really hope it.


yeah, im that pathetic.

ps: ive only been really drinking a lot this past week, im not a very big drinker. beer makes me gag, but sometimes you just wanna get drunk.

 

[BOZ]

wasn't posting drunk what got this thread started in the first place?

 

[Teflon Billy]

wasn't posting drunk what got this thread started in the first place?

AH LOVE YOooU MAAAAAAN!!!

 

[Teflon Billy]

everyone, thank you so much. im not really sure what im going to do, but knowing that people actually care is more help then any of you will evr know. i dont realy have many freinds left, ive done something to drive them all away. i dont even get to game anymore. it really means so much to me that everyone is trying to help me. yes im drunk...

What the hell are you doing home drunk instead of being out picking up an Ugly Girl?

~FOCUS~

 

[Ralts Bloodthorne]

What the hell are you doing home drunk instead of being out picking up an Ugly Girl?

~FOCUS~

I second this motion.

STOP DRINKING ALONE!

Get up tommorrow, run that crap out of your system, shower, shave off all your head (or get a flat top at the barber shop), and go out, get hammered, puke in the ditch as you stagger home, and pass out on the floor.

Me, I can drink at home like I am now. I'm married.

Or something.

But contrary to so many people on the internet's belief, women aren't going to fall out of the cieling and into your lap as you play WOW.

GET OFF YOUR BUTT! NOW!

 

[BOZ]

seriously dude. drowning your sorrows alone - let's focus in on that last word, "alone"! that's the root of your problem! get away from the computer! go get you a woman!

 

[Aaron L]

well, i didnt get drunk alone. i went out to get drunk. there werent any women that were unnattended, so to say. i stayed there for 3 hours. but after a while of sitting by myself drinking i got bored and depressed and walked back home (i cant drive, i walk everywhere )
i dont have much to talk about with people, beyond people saying that they like the music i play (i tend to take over the jukebox when im out, and i have varied and i guess good taste in music. at leats i get complimented on it a lot.)


but i went out, and i did look, and i was approachable (at least i thought i was, the shallow skanks around here are a bit picky, tho)


I went out and tried, i really did!

i think my best bet is to stop caring at all. it aint gonna happen, so what the hell am i trying for? tonight i got an email making me pretty much stop caring about the whole damn thing. other people can have it, ill just make myself content to lay here and rot.

or something. i dont care. maybe this weekend. but weekends theres such a crowd that i freak out and hyperventilate if i try to go out alone. if i dont have at least one friend along as an escort i seriously panic. and my friend that i usually go out with has pretty much decided im not worth her time anymore, i guess.

 

[Buttercup]

It probably helps that I'm funny and smart and tall and good looking and a good GM (that last one probably only helps a little).

I wouldn't say that you're tall.

 

[WhimsyTheFae]

well, i didnt get drunk alone. i went out to get drunk. there werent any women that were unnattended, so to say. i stayed there for 3 hours. but after a while of sitting by myself drinking i got bored and depressed ...

Umm...well...you were getting drunk alone. You were just in a public place.

Now, I'm not a bar frequenter, so I'll let others dispense the bar advice. I just wanted to point out that you were getting drunk alone...

 

[fusangite]

The problems Aaron is now articulating ie. "I can't leave town -- I must date women in this vile crappy little berg where people throw garbage at me" once again refer back to the fact that not having a woman is really not this guy's problem.

I notice, Aaron, that you won't even engage with those of us who have identified your total dependence on your mother as the problem. If you believed that you were capable of making your own appointments and organizing your own meds, you could move to Pittsburg or some other urban centre where you know people. Others have noted that even if you don't want to move, there is still no reason you have to date in the same town as the one in which you reside. Internet dating, etc. make it possible to date outside town even while you are making the transition to a new place of residence.

Don't adapt to your town -- faking being a redneck is a talent rare enough that you can take it all the way to the presidency. Instead, go somewhere that you don't have to be a redneck. In the process of doing so, you'll finally cut your umbilical cord, a measure that is just a tad overdue.

EDIT: As for your latest attempt, girls in bars are a CR8 encounter; you need to start with CR1 encounters, thus the recommendation of internet dating and manga conventions.