That said, is nobody else annoyed by or uncomfortable with racial deities? "Sorry, you're a dwarf, so you have to worship this dwarf travel-god; we don't serve your kind in the elven pantheon."
Nah, I think it's reasonable from real-world examples (Greek gods look like Greeks? Amazing!) but also remember that this is fantasy land. People have probably run into the gods and chatted with them. And when they do that, why wouldn't they appear in the image of their worshipers? Hell they could even be aspects of some pure ideal that is incarnated in several racial deities. That's just good marketing.
Or maybe it is commentary on human nature?
[TABLE="width: 100%"][TR][TD]"The god of the cannibals will be a cannibal, of the crusaders a crusader, and of the merchants a merchant."
[/TD][/TR][TR][TD] -- Ralph Waldo Emerson[/TD][/TR][/TABLE]