I don't believe I stated what my understanding of hit points was. My point was that you're not going to get everyone to agree on what they are.
Pages and pages of arguing with no side being convinced by the other has demonstrated that well enough I think.
Yet all the evidence written in books by the designers says you're misinterpreting them. That's not to say you can't houserule/mod the game for HP to be "meat", far from it, but claiming they are "meat" by default is rather silly when everything written says they're not "meat points".
Expecting the game mechanics to directly account for all the different houserules/mods isn't realistic. Adding modules and sidebars for some may be.