Olaf the Stout
Hero
What exactly happened between the 2 of you to turn your relationship from friends to what it is now? You said that you were friends with him before but you don't like him now.
Olaf the Stout
Olaf the Stout
warlord said:Ugh, this is gonna sound really bad but I kind of had a thing for his girlfriend before they got together and he acted like he was looking out for me and told me not to try anything. And sure enough a month later I find out they're dating. On top of the manipulation these two had a really bad break-up the first time and now she's dating him again. She's one of those girls who needs to feel validated and apparently stumbling into her room at 2am muttering "i love you" counts these days. All in all I don't wanna see her get hurt and I can't sit there on watch it happen. I figured I could try and change things but apparently that makes me an ass. So I'm thinking I should just disappear for few days and gradually reform relationships with the people in the group I actually like.
Trust me on this man, if you were meant to be with that girl, she'd be dating you right now instead of him. She knows you exist and if she is dating him (twice) and not you, then it's not meant to be.warlord said:Ugh, this is gonna sound really bad but I kind of had a thing for his girlfriend before they got together
Arbiter of Wyrms said:Parenthetically, if you never did express this to her explicitly, you can make that a part of your apology: "Jane, I apologize. I tried to interfere with your relationship with John because I think that you two make a terrible couple, that he's all wrong for you; because I felt betrayed by him because he knew that I was interested in you when he first pursued you, and honestly, because I still think that you and I would be great together. The truth is, I acted like an ass, and I'm sorry. I respect you enough to know that you can make that decision for yourself, and from now on, I'm going to stop being a jerk by acting like I know better than you do what's right for you."
Ask her: "Who have you been talkin'g to? I've heard that I'm sweet, but you've never even had a taste."warlord said:I found this girl who thinks I'm "sweet" any ideas on how to progress beyond this point?
Urp! Arbiter, you just made me throw up in my mouth a little!Arbiter of Wyrms said:Ask her: "Who have you been talkin'g to? I've heard that I'm sweet, but you've never even had a taste."