Married? Give me advice!

[Allanon]

Never change aspects about yourself she doesn't like because you have too, only change them because you want too.

Anytime you try to be something you are not is a time in which you are creating friction, friction that will effect your relationship. Never forget she fell in love with you despite your shortcomings, living together/marriage should never force you too suddenly hide or remedy all those shortcomings. They as much a part of you as she is. I learned this one the hard way. My current girlfriend accepts my pro's and my con's just as I accept hers. And my relationship is so much the better for it.

 

[der_kluge]

Oh yeah, for the record I'm a guy. Olive is a fairly feminine name I guess, but I guess that's the problem with using your female character's name as a username.

Jesus. Everything I know is wrong.

 

[Turanil]

Jesus. Everything I know is wrong.

Is this a quote? (Sorry if I entered the forbidden field of religious discussions)

 

[MrFilthyIke]

Communication. Laughter. Love. And for the love of the gods, have at least SOME similar interests between the two of you.

Shane, married 5 years in Feb 05 to a beautiful dork/geek-ette.