Obryn
Hero
Honestly, you can also avoid updates if you don't tow the super-optimization line. I mean, as a reasonable player, I know there's something iffy about combining Sword Burst and Enlarge Spell. Or with feycharging. Or with using a Warlock PP to make my Avenger a super-crit-fisher. Or with MCing into Fighter just to grab Pit Fighter and make my Battlemind's Brutal Barrage utterly insane.If someone is frustrated with having their character become illegal every month? They don't need to use the updates. Unless they are in the RPGA, in which case that is one of the costs of being in a fully supported living campaign. In a home game? No one is going to give you grief if you haven't made sure everything is perfectly up to date. And for most players, it will happen automatically just through use of the Character Builder.
So... usually, I don't. My players usually don't, either.
-O