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This statement just shows why I dislike 4e. My experience was that maybe 1 player in a 4e party understood the system in this way.I get the impression that your players may not actually be playing the game in its full technical sense - like, are they using encounter and daily powers sensibly, making decisions about their action points, using healing efficiently, etc? If they are not - eg if they are "casual" players who are not really interested in the technical demands of 4e play - then maybe you are using the wrong system.
Have you tried a less technical system with your group? In A Wicked Age, or Dungeon World, would both be examples of that.
That player would get frustrated with the others and the other play would just be frustrated by the complexity.
4e was not a system for people who wanted casual D&D.