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I sincerely hope that all the people I have told lately that D&D has changed and is cool and mainstream and fun never see the contents of this thread![]()
Valuable input. Thank you.
I sincerely hope that all the people I have told lately that D&D has changed and is cool and mainstream and fun never see the contents of this thread![]()
Back on track then, my position, I'm sure I gave it earlier, and I'm not going to justify it, this is just personal preference.
I never DM a game which includes magic shops.
Not ever.
I don't want to play in a game that includes or expects 'magic markets', or even allows the items to be easily made.
I don't want rules to exist to allow for this playstyle. Not even optional rules. Sorry, to me those type of rules send the game in the wrong direction and give players seeds of expectation I don't want them to have.
Is this back on topic enough?
Unfortunately, it doesn't just block you from seeing their posts, it also blocks your posts from them. With all the concomitant disruption to page count, last posts read, post tracking etc for them.1. My understanding of the ignore feature is that it allows me to be discerning about the experience I want to have on the forums. If I determine that I don't want to read what someone else is doing, I don't have to. However, I don't think that prevents the blocked person from seeing my posts unless they choose not to.
Paradoxically, its actually more considerate not to inform someone that you're blocking them, particularly if you quote them to do so. The block feature works retroactively, so they will see a notification that you replied to/quoted them, but be unable to actually see that post.2. Based on this definition, I'm not bullying into doing anything. My only intention in advising Max that I was blocking him was so that he knew I wouldn't be replying to anything he wrote to me. I suggested that he also block me if he found what I was writing difficult to deal with on his end.
Again my apologies to those who are replying to Max in my stead. I'll be less forthcoming in the future when it comes to using the ignore function.
And while that isn't what you did, the person that you blocked doesn't know that.
So, going to address this, since it is (IMO) much more interesting than another magic shop argument.
Different forums can have different rules regarding an ignore feature. That said, there is certainly a good reason to set it up like this. Imagine, if you will, that you feel someone is harassing or bullying you (or just being a jerk). Now, your view might be that if you don't see it, who cares, right? OTOH, if the ignore feature simply prevented you from seeing them, then that person might be able to keep making their obnoxious posts about you (for instance, replying to your quotes) without you ever knowing. Which will be distressing when you notice that other people refer to those posts. See what I mean?
Now, this might not be the way you like it. And that's fine! Different strokes for different folks, and all that. But (IMO) it does have an immediate and positive impact on discourse, as it removes the antagonists from a conversation. On both sides. Without requiring constant moderation. It also helps serve as an informal civility code; after all, I don't like being ignored, and I'm sure others don't like it as well, and that helps temper otherwise intemperate conversations.
Now, it doesn't remove you ability to read those threads by the person who ignored you, if you really want to. Just don't log in.
Personally, I like it. I tend to be quick with the ignore feature. Life is too short, and all that. TBH, sometimes I am the one at fault (either partially, or mostly) and it works as a timeout for me. But I also review my block list fairly often. I'll usually lift it after a couple of days to see if I was wrong.
But I do have a strict "three strike and you're out policy." If I've put you on ignore three times, it's not worth my time to review it. Like I said, life's too short, and the forum is supposed to be fun.
And I don't think this would change if the person blocked could still see the posts of the person who blocked them. They would still not be having a back and forth that is disruptive.TLDR; I think that the ignore feature, along with good moderation, is one of the reasons that enworld has managed to keep a high level of discourse that is far too rare on the internet nowadays. I enjoy the high signal-to-noise ratio.
[MENTION=23751]Maxperson[/MENTION]
You keep describing this as something you've been forced to do. You chose to participate in a forum with a blocking mechanism you don't like.
You chose to engage in a quarrel that resulted in another member using that blocking mechanism. He didn't do anything to you that you didn't implicitly agree to.