gnarlygninja
Adventurer
Oh, for sure, I agree with all this. I've just noticed that in big parts of the greater internet the distinction between the two is vanishing so I have a knee jerk reaction to defend the former. I also spent a few years in my late 20s in a friend group that didn't (I once had to write out an apology for saying a book I didn't know they had read and liked was terrible), which also adds to the instinct.There’s a difference between good faith exploration of something that didn’t work for you and trying to understand what other people liked about it and “all things of x genre are terrible and I don’t need to actually try any of them to know that and you have bad taste for liking it.”
To be clear, you don’t have to like anything but your not liking a thing is less interesting than you think it is and definitely does not make you interesting or reflect some elegant taste you’ve developed.
But on the whole I think people would be much happier if they spent less time thinking about the things they don't like, let alone yelling about them online. That's time that could be better spent reading a book or watching a movie or playing a game you do like.