Ryujin
Legend
As someone who has literally been stalked by two people in downtown Toronto, at 5:00am, I think a healthy dose of situational awareness is a good thing. I also know that I live in one of the safest countries in the world, statistically speaking.I'm not skeptical about what you specifically are telling me.
I am skeptical of a more generic and general fearful viewpoint: the threat of crime, violent acts, isn't nearly as high as some folks imagine it to be. There is a percentage of the population that seems to have a lens that exaggerates the possibility of harm of any type coming their way. Like an overdeveloped flight response. Handy in the caveman days, when a rustle in the bushes might mean a sabretooth tiger ready to pounce. Not so useful over the last several thousand years though.
Not saying that's you! Sounds like you lived in a rough place, and I get what you're telling me.