No. Compare the 1E PHB to the 3E PHB, and with the exception of maybe the barbarian from Unearthed Arcana, and perhaps the sorcerer, the races and classes are the same. Heck, 1E even had a bard in the back of the book.
4E rather violently breaks with that tradition, and you're pretending twas always thus. Wasn't 'twas always thus, and for many folks, the 4E PHB wasn't D&D for them either. And the whole reason for getting all maverick with the implied setting (updating D&D's take on fantasy, maybe aping WoW and the like, in an attempt to bring in new players) didn't exactly bring in much in the way of new players.
Rather conveniently for them, the design team have found a way to justify retaining the changes they imposed on the game's implied setting as of 4E. Like it or not, your preferences and theirs are the sore thumb sticking out in the 30 years referred to, and yes, you and they could be considered heavy handed and selfish for insisting they be imposed on everyone else under the core D&D banner.