You get to claim that you're doing something that is different. You're sandboxing. Not just running a game, but, a special and unique kind of game that only those privileged enough to comprehend the beauty of the process can truly perform. The fact that what you're doing is pretty much exactly the same as what every other DM out there does must be challenged with obfuscation and jargon. We're not creating stories, we writing "drama". We're not deciding events based on anything so plebeian or crass as whatever the table might enjoy. No. We are basing events on the "logic of the setting". On and on and on.
Sorry to dredge this back up, but I have been thinking about this post after a recent exchange.
There are a number of trad sandboxers in this thread who have stated they see a lot of similarities between what they do and the principles outlined in Blades in the Dark. This has gained a reasonable amount of pushback from the strongly narrativist clique.
Specifically, I stated that I found Play to Find Out, as described in Blades, to be philosophically very similar to the general concept of emergent story and general concepts I've adhered to for quite some time. This resulted in numerous people strongly and moderately aligned with narrativism to rush to tell me these things are completely different. Someone, possibly
@Hussar, went so far as to tell me emergent story isn't even possible in the games I run.
A short while ago, I commented that the way
@pemerton describes scene framing sounds very similar to the way I view setting development. Pemerton promptly replied to assure me that these two things are completely different and I'm wrong to see them as at all similar.
I recall
@robertsconley commenting on several occasions that our objectives seem similar, and it's really just the methods that are different.
So, from where I'm sitting, it's not the trad sandboxers who are trying to claim something utterly unique. We do see plenty of points of similarity.
It's the narrativists who seem to me to be most prone to rejecting any attempt to find common ground and arguing at every step that their processes are unique and special and not like anything anyone else does.