Argyle King
Legend
I hadn't realized that those things had happened to Bruce regularly for all of his teen and adult life, so that by the time he became The Hulk he already had learned to deal with that anger.
EDIT: Reading further on, I see some others have addressed this, and you've basically blown off what woman go through to compare to a large trauma. Can you picture every single day of your life being worried about getting violated if you are out after dark? At being afraid to take a drink at a party from someone or pick up your drink if you put it down for a moment because you are afraid it's been roofied? People could go on and on, but it really comes across as the "guy who has no idea what it is like therefore dismissing it as not all that bad".
Early trauma, fear, and etc aren't limited to one set of genitalia.
While I would agree that there are challenges which tend to face some portions of the population more than others, I would posit that's it's comparably dismissive to say that things like PTSD (from constant war and conflict); being viewed by society as a monster; and so-forth aren't difficult challenges.
In some ways, the fact that Jen is so easily accepted while Bruce's struggles are swept aside as unimportant highlights the challenges of seeking mental health help as a male. Admitting having challenges or admitting that you need help with mental or emotional trauma tends to be ridiculed or brushed aside as something of a joke.