Yes, I am definitely a player who likes to play with the DM rather than against him. I am myself a DM, and I know how frustrating it is when wills clash and there is no resolving it in "peacefull" terms.
[start rant]As for what FX said about trust/lack of it, in PbP games, I tend to agree. However, the problem with PbP games are the way we communicate. Harsh words don't loose their edge, because you don't see the one typing it grinning friendly while typing. Misstrust between the characters often become confused with misstrust between the players, etc. When playing table-top, you have body language, tones, etc etc to take the edge of things, and this is often absent on forum games. I've lost players just because of this here on EnWorld a few times; bickering between characters have expanded to petty bickering between the players. Comments about minor things have started arguments, and afterwards it gets apparent that one player or the other forgot a smiley in one post, to take off the edge.
Well, to sum my ranting up; I agree with FX, but often it leads to uncomfortable situations on forums, chats etc. [/end rant]
About the Campaign:
As previous mentioned, I am not all that familiar with Eberron. I only read about the parts I needed (Psions, Riedra, feats etc), so most of the names, organisations(?) etc you mentioned I am unfamiliar with. It might suit Sheilika though, seeing as she is from a remote place (I think she is, though

).
However, I do like games with somewhat of a spesific goal, Plot-twists and plots that involve the characters. (Something premade adventures never do.)
Oh, and here is the First draft. Still need to buy equipment though, allthough I am not really sure what to buy yet
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Sheilika
Female Human Soulknife 3
Alignment: Neutral Good
Size: Medium
Type: Humanoid
Base Speed: 30
Space: 5 ft.
Reach: 5 ft.
Str: 14 (+2) [14base]
Dex: 18 (+4) [18base]
Con: 16 (+3) [16base]
Int: 12 (+1) [12base]
Wis: 14 (+2) [14base]
Cha: 10 (+1) [10base]
HP: 34 (3d10 + 9Con) [10 + 5 + 10 + 9]
AC: 20 (10base + 4dex + 4armor + 2shield) / 14 / 16
AC penalty: -2
Fortitude: +4 (1base + 3con)
Reflex: +6 (3base + 4dex)
Will: +5 (3base + 2wis)
Init: +4 (4dex)
Base attack bonus: +2
MindBlade: +7(+5) (2base + 4dex + 1focus(-2two-weapons)), 1d6+5 damage, Threat 19-20/x2, Range 30 ft.
+1d8 Psychic Strike
Heavy Wooden Spiked Shield: +6(+4) (2base + 4dex(-2two-weapons)), 1d6+5 damage, Threat 20/x2
Skill points: 36
Max Skill Ranks: 6
Autohypnosis: 8 (6ranks + 2wis)
Climb: 6 (6ranks + 2str - 2AC)
Concentration: 9 (6ranks + 3con)
Jump: 8 (6ranks + 2str + 2synergy - 2AC)
Listen: 8 (6ranks + 2wis)
Tumble: 10 (6ranks + 4dex + 2synergy - 2AC)
Feats:
Human Bonus - Two-Weapon Fighting
Soulknife Bonus - Weapon Focus (MindBlade)
Soulknife Bonus - Wild Talent
Lvl 1 - Improved Shield Bash
Lvl 3 - Weapon Finesse
Languages:
Common
Elven
Equipment:
MW Chain Shirt 250gp
MW Heavy Wooden Shield 157gp
Shield Spikes 10gp
2193
Total weight carried: 40
Proficiencies:
Simple Weapons
Light Armor
Shields (Not tower)
Info:
Sheilika is a young girl from the continent of Sarlona. What she does on Khorvaire is not known. In fact, she is not entirely sure why she is there herself. She was brought up in a noble family totaly devoted to The Inspired. When she was about ten years of age, her first psychic abilities started to show. At first, she did not think any of it, her parents were both acomplished psions, after all. It was not untill her twelth year that she realized that her abilities differed from her parents. Where they were able to do all sorts of things, what Sheilika was able to do was bring forth a small dagger out of nothingness. She tried to hide the fact from her parents, embarrassed that she would never become as good as they were to manipulate the forces of the mind. At fifteen she ran away. That was when she met Moulan, an agent of The Thousand Eyes. She was taken under Moulans wing, and soon she was able to control her powers over her MindBlade (as Moulan said it was called) more properly. Now, at age ninteen, Moulan took her to Khorvaire, presumably on a quest for The Thousand Eyes. Moulan left her to her own a few weeks ago, telling her "Stay put dear Shei. I will be back soon, and then we will do what is needed of us. Be safe." But she did not come back, and Sheilika is now on her own.
The young girl usually wears clothes of dark purple, bordering on black. Her dark hair is cut short, and her eyes are usually downcast around strangers. She is shy and not talkative with people. With the few people she considers her closest friends (Like Moulan), she is as an open book, though. For her friends, she would do anything. In combat, she still got a lot to learn; her training with Moulan was far from finnished when they left Riedra, but she tries her best.[/sblock]