But it does.
Let us say the question before us is, "Are strawberries a good fruit?"
Someone says, "Well, when I was a kid, my jerk brother smashed my face into a bucket of half-rotten strawberries, and from that experience now I cannot so much as smell them without vomiting. Strawberries suck."
It would be valid to say that person's dislike of strawberries really isn't about the strawberries per se, it is about a traumatic event in their past, and isn't really relevant to the discussion of strawberries qua strawberries.
When the relevance of your position is based in how mad you were and how you "haven't gotten over it" that's not about the game mechanics themselves, but about your emotional processing of the change.