So, are you suggesting that if the players decided that they wanted to avoid all of the weirdness and go open a bakery in the quietest, least weird town in the Realm, that that'd be OK with you? You'd run that for them?
This is part of the reason this issue, and many others like it, struggle to get discussed very fairly; these absolutist statements about playstyle. Getting to feel superior because you maintained purity of playstyle is a pretty poor consolation prize for a fun game. Which is exactly why most people don't actually practice, or want to, absolute endpoints on the spectrum.