I mean, I'll give you this man, you are making me laugh IRL so this was not an entirely wasted discussion but that is some evasive circular-logic nonsense.Letting the player decide how they want to play their own character is how I play. Nobody's hiding here.
ROFL this seems pretty evasive. I'd love to see how you actually played in person.I'm all for calling out bad behavior when it happens. Characterizing skilled play as necessarily problematic or divorced from good roleplay or consistent character portrayal is not something I can sign on to.