Hussar
Legend
It's not a case of the group only having party goals, but that individual goals should be structured in such a way that everyone has a chance to participate. Note, I'm saying that each player should have a chance to participate, not necessarily each character. It could be that the DM sets up the situation so that the other players can pick up the other NPC's for example.
In all honesty, I'm not sure how to deal with this at the table. For my own games, I take the personal goal stuff to play by post. If you want to lone wolf, don't do it at the group meet up. Or, if you want to pursue your character's goal, convince the rest of the party to help you and I'm all for it as a DM. Otherwise, I'd rather not have five players each playing five different games at the same session.
I really wonder if this has to do with amount of time played. I play three hour sessions. Figure someone being fifteen minutes late or a bit of catching up time at the beginning and that three hour session is probably closer to 2 and a half. That's just not enough time to entertain a bunch of unrelated personal quests. I know that when I used to play longer sessions - 4 to 6 hours, this thing never bothered me at all. Either I'd sit and watch, or go get some munchies, or whatever.
It does bother me now though, both as a player and a DM.
Imaro, out of curiosity, how long are your sessions?
In all honesty, I'm not sure how to deal with this at the table. For my own games, I take the personal goal stuff to play by post. If you want to lone wolf, don't do it at the group meet up. Or, if you want to pursue your character's goal, convince the rest of the party to help you and I'm all for it as a DM. Otherwise, I'd rather not have five players each playing five different games at the same session.
I really wonder if this has to do with amount of time played. I play three hour sessions. Figure someone being fifteen minutes late or a bit of catching up time at the beginning and that three hour session is probably closer to 2 and a half. That's just not enough time to entertain a bunch of unrelated personal quests. I know that when I used to play longer sessions - 4 to 6 hours, this thing never bothered me at all. Either I'd sit and watch, or go get some munchies, or whatever.
It does bother me now though, both as a player and a DM.
Imaro, out of curiosity, how long are your sessions?