Mercule
Adventurer
I think that's the motivation for the dragonborn. My wife is beautiful and sweet, IRL, but she likes to play brutally disturbing characters. The eladrin doesn't really stand out, so I'm assuming he's in it for the teleport and INT bonus. One of the halflings plays identical to a human, though the other one does dig on being small. And, as I said, the warforged is constantly trying to head to the tavern -- he's also the healer and party face.So it didn't matter to people that they looked different and had different bodies? I can wrap my head around not liking that even if I can't wrap my head around the idea of an alien mindset. Whenever I've been non-human it's been because the body is important to my image of the character and thus their identity, even though they're still a human in a suit.
I don't have as much of an issue if the physically alien side of things is played up, rather than the psychologically alien. Even then, there's only so much alien you can play up when you're only one neon sign among many.