Why are people not interested in RPG?

It's depressing that most people it seems dont agree with me while I am trying to be optimistic and positive about the hobby itself and dont care about growing the hobby .At least, it seems by the comments that I receive all the time on here =/ . Good to know I guess though....
 

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I have taught astronomy and physics college level since 06, and the amount of people on their cell phones and people that do ANYTHING but what they should be gives me this impressions. People are way to obsessed with facebook or youtube or whatever instead of applying themselves. This comes from a pool of around... 3000 kids I have taught over the years. /shrug . So yes, I do believe people are apathetic and lazy. I'm sure any teacher would tell you the same, and it's getting worse, much much worse.
 
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I have no idea why that should be depressing. I disagreed with a portion of what you said, not out of a lack of optimism, but rather out of an abundance of anecdotal evidence based on firsthand experience. If I take my experiences back 20+ years, rather than just the last decade, the numbers increase much more in favor of my argument.

Don't take my disagreement personally.

Also, I will always present my hobby in a desirable light. Just because the majority aren't interested, doesn't mean that it's impossible to attract players.

EDIT: I don't disagree with you about the degree of apathy existing in the world, but I also don't believe it correlates to why people aren't interested in RPGs. In fact, I am a very apathetic 40 year old who enjoys RPGs. ;)
 
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It's depressing that most people it seems dont agree with me while I am trying to be optimistic and positive about the hobby itself and dont care about growing the hobby.
I didn't mean to sound overly harsh and snarky (I probably did) and it isn't that I don't care about growing the hobby, it's that I think it's important to have realistic expectations, and not to operate under the mistaken belief that other people will find an activity enjoyable and rewarding simply because you do.

There's sometimes a fine line between being an evangelist and a scold.

A brief story: my wife once worked doing marketing and publicity for an opera school. Now a lot of the people in and around the organization couldn't quite understand why more people didn't love opera. I mean, they did! And opera was once quite popular. If only we reach out to more people, make it more accessible. If only contemporary audiences weren't so lazy and resistant to more challenging music. We have to do something, because our core audience is getting older each year, and younger fans aren't replacing them.

Sound familiar?

The thing is, no matter how beautiful, how enriching, how beneficial opera appreciation might be, it's not for everyone. Do like you opera? What about contemporary opera? That Nixon in China is pretty damn good.

If you like opera, great. If you don't, well, that's perfectly okay, too. You can lead a perfectly good and rich life without ever enjoying a note of opera. Ditto pretending to be an elf.

So yes, I do believe people are apathetic and lazy.
Gaming is a hobby, not coursework.

How would you feel if a bunch of dedicated mountain climbing enthusiasts called us lazy, doughy, risk-averse, dice-happy couch (basement?) potatoes?
 
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Another comment is that it is a large commitment to the person with an active life. Most people who actually would play this DO have enough time for it, most of them are simply lazy or apathetic about it.

That's an oversimplification.

Roleplaying is not a large commitment to the person with an active life. It's a large commitment by a group of people. There's a major difference.

It's not just about the respective energy, focus and time each individual will have to put in the activity. It's that roleplaying is a punctual activity requiring synchronization by its participants.

Putting down the controller from a console game and spending an hour on this isnt a far stretch. How many hours do people spend on youtube and facebook looking up worthless nonsense?

What exactly are you gonna accomplish in an hour?

People sit down and play a console game or watch facebook on their own terms. It's whenever they feel like doing so. A roleplaying campaign is a sizable investment of time and energy. You need to plan, coordinate schedules. It's very different.


I'm not saying they SHOULD sacrifice hobbies for this, but seriously, im sure most people could easily fit the time in for the game.

It certainly can be done, although I know hardcore gamers who have problems. I've seen one of my closest friends (and a dedicated roleplayer and pretty good GM) exactly 2 times in the last 6 weeks. One of those time for a catching up dinner and the other time at mutual friend's birthday party. We just can't make a common gaming slot fit in our schedule right now.

And in a roundabout way, this goes back to what I was saying about RPGs earlier in the thread. (so the rest of this post in not addressed to you but to the community at large).

The hobby needs simpler, flexible games that are easy to learn and fast to run. Going through chargen for Pathfinder isn't fun. It's boring and stupid and the sheets are more complicated than tax forms. That's not entertaining. And the top selling RPGs wth their loooong dragging combat eat so much time out of sessions that, eventually, everyone realizes nobody got anything done unless you sat on your butt for 6 hours straight, just playing.

Newsflash: asking 5 people to fit a punctual activity in their schedule is difficult and it is pretty obvious that the longer the time slot you are asking for, the more difficult it gets. It is extremely difficult for a group of people to find common ground and fit a 7-hour session in their schedule.

The fact that a lot of dedicated gamers don't seem to bat an eye when fighting a group of lowly goblins takes over two hours is just puzzling. It goes against any logic but that's where we are. An encounter with fodder material nobody gives a crap about should take 10 minutes top.

And that way, you can actually accomplish something worthy of mention in a 4-hour session and get more people to try gaming.

o as far as I'm concerned, weapon stats and intricate details for classes and all this nonsense about how races should matter and backgrounds and feats and a thousand maneuvers and modifiers... it can all die in the fire that I would gladly lite using those useless tax form character sheets.

There's no reason you can't make a complete RPG to fit under 64 pages and once the top companies start marketing those games and stop listening to a dwindling hardcore fanbase, they'll get more people playing.
 

e also definitely need a way to make online games more accessible. The various VTT applications are a step in the right direction but often take way too much work for the GM so I heard.

Synchronizing groups gets harder and harder, and my two long term groups (since the early 80s) are about to break up over this problem.
 

Sorry last night its just... we held a magic the gathering draft tournament here and we had around 15 or so people come over (it was at our apartment we have a lot of people into gaming around here) however when I mentioned RPG's around 8 or so of them say oh yeah, I play WOW, or Skyrim (which is why i mentioned it in my op) and some other stuff. So i mention if anyone has ever played a table top game and people asked me like ... risk? And I said no like Dungeons and Dragons, or pathfinder. And none of them knew anything about it. I honestly just think that more people need to be exposed. The people that COULD be introduced to the game simply dont know it exists. I highly recommend people to talk more about it if a person DOES play RPGs like everquest, wow, TOR , skyrim etc etc. You would be surprized how many people dont know what a roleplaying game is. Im not saying play pathfinder or D&D , or l5r, or eoris, or saga edition, or any specific system. What I AM saying is trying and get people to play SOMETHING , so we can spread the word of the awesome hobby.
 

I agree.

The local youth club has a (slim but existing) program to get people playing tabletop RPGs and wargames because they also teach maths and language skills. Granted, the wargame part of the program is considerably larger, but that may also be because I'm the only GM. Well, not quite anymore, one of the boys from the first group formed his own now.

Funny thing was, when we started out, the interest was more in Star Wars and Star Trek than fantasy. But the first small group was still in a D&D world.
 

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