Why do women send mixed signals?

[Ralts Bloodthorne]

So the one time my stepdad told me he was sorry, I told him it was not OK and kept reminding of the mistake like he did with me. Payback is a bitch.

Congradulations, you are now your stepdad.

Wouldn't he be proud?

 

[The Traveler]

Payback is a bitch.

Now, while I told myself I was going to stay out of this thread, I do feel this needs addressing. This is the core of your problem, and it's not Asperger's Syndrome. Your twisted sence of "getting even" is going to do you more harm than good. I don't know how I can put it in any simpler terms. This is what nearly all your other issues hang from, and it cannot be explained away as a medical disorder.

 

[KenM]

Congradulations, you are now your stepdad.

Wouldn't he be proud?

I know I turned into him. I'm not at all proud of it either.

 

[Ralts Bloodthorne]

I know I turned into him. I'm not at all proud of it either.

But you won't change it?

If you aren't proud of it, THEN CHANGE!

Teflon Billy told you how to.

I showed you the recommended way for those afflicted with injury induced ASD to learn to interact properly with society.

Scores of other people here have given you advice and instruction.

Quit whining and do. Stop making excuses.

I'd give you more pointed advice, but like the banner says: You can't handle the truth.

Why do I believe that? I've read this thread, and you're only human.

 

[I'm A Banana]

I did post about pro help up there, right?

If you're not proud of it, it sounds to me like you definately have the werewithal to fight it back. Because while we are a product of our environment, we're not JUST that. You see this as a problem. That means you have the power to make a difference and overcome it.

You have the ability. A pro psychologist can be a big help in using it. EN World's Tuff Love seems to already have helped the road start, perhaps....?

 

[KenM]

Ok, I'll try and do some of those things that TB and others have said. But I could just be saying so and telling a little lie to make all you people happy. But thats OK becuse thats how soicety works.

 

[The Traveler]

Ok, I'll try and do some of those things that TB and others have said. But I could just be saying so and telling a little lie to make all you people happy. But thats OK becuse thats how soicety works.

While you're at it, work on that passive-aggressive streak of yours, dude.

 

[Ralts Bloodthorne]

Ok, I'll try and do some of those things that TB and others have said. But I could just be saying so and telling a little lie to make all you people happy. But thats OK becuse thats how soicety works.

Yup, that's exactly how society, and the internet work. People lie all the time, and the more powerful they are, the bigger the lies.

Get used it, it ain't gonna change because you don't like it.

Besides, not being lied to may end up hurting your ego in ways you never thought.

"It was the best I've ever had." "I came." "It happens to a lot of guys and it doesn't matter to me." and "I think it's cute."-Little white lies

Nicely played on the sulking card and trying to twist words card.

 

[Crothian]

Ok, I'll try and do some of those things that TB and others have said. But I could just be saying so and telling a little lie to make all you people happy. But thats OK becuse thats how soicety works.

And of course that's not true, but whatever.....

 

[I'm A Banana]

Yup, that's exactly how society, and the internet work. People lie all the time, and the more powerful they are, the bigger the lies.

psssst....I'm not really a midget....dont' tell anyone!

If you're lying, KenM, you're doing it to protect yourself and yourself alone. I'm not really offended, but I do wonder what you're trying to protect yourself from....

And if you're not lying, well, good.