GMforPowergamers
Legend
...I don't know about anyone else [probably not since it seems so rare an occurrence], but I am really getting tired of being made out to advocate "badwrongfun", being "adversarial", or "arrogant" and/or insinuating (if not stating outright) I am a "bad DM" any time anything is brought up advocating DM empowerment.
you know what I'm sick of it too.
I'm sick of having to defend (what I would think is a common thought) the idea that the players having fun and being given the ability to do things they want isn't some high crime... or worse that a player would dare ask for something and NOT BE POWERGAMING or trying to break the game..
The DM is allowed to make choices for their game. Regards of what players say, what players want, what players think they are entitled to. The DM CAN SAY NO! They SHOULD say no. They should be fair. Yes. Note, not "balanced", fair. They should be as consistent as possible...Yes. But it's not always possible and players need to accept that. And they should damn well HAVE A GOOD TIME DMing! And if that means NOT adding in options that the players say they want...so fraggin' be it!
that whole thing right there is pretty much an attack on my groups way of playing... infact that is something I hate to have to defend... the DM has what ever rights the players give him no more or less...
Is it going to "ruin" your concept that you can't be a Paladin/Warlock/Sorcerer? Is it going to "ruin" your game/night if the DM says no MCing in their campaign...
turn that around, would it ruin your game night to say yes, can you find a middle ground if you both want other things?
or even in this single campaign or one shot? Or does it just mean you work with what you got? The DM will still be shelling out enough fun adventure and excitement in a fantastic world of their design [as shaped and effected by the PCs and their choices and actions] to shake a handful of dice at. You still have loads of "meaningful" decisions, both in character creation and roleplaying, to make.
and all of that is REGARDLESS of what the player is playing...
But you can't have fun with just a Paladin? She's a "bad DM" cuz they won't let you use spell points to max out smites? You character is no good now, because you have to limit your spell selection to Eldritch Knight [or, ya know, play an EK and get DM ok to use different spell schools! Still don't need MC for that.] He's telling me "badwrongfun" cuz he won't let me be a Fighter/Mage...and get Second Wind and Arcane Recovery and Extra Attacks and Ritual Casting and and and...?
and what is the harm in saying "Oh you want to play X, I can work with that"
how about taking a step back and looking that some people have been playing a different way with no problems... everI just don't get it. Just a big meany DM, I guess.