Maxperson
Morkus from Orkus
I don't agree with that. I want to know that the epic story happened because my game play mattered, not because the DM lied to me, railroaded me, including through the use of illusionism.The thing that you don't get is that the players don't want to expose the DM in any case, they just want to play an epic story. It's a game of make believe anyway, and the DM can create whatever they want, on the spot, just "because". He does not even need to lie to destroy you, if that is what he wanted.
If I find out the DM is like that, I'm done with that group.
His benevolence and good will doesn't make railroading and lying to the players okay, though.Honestly, sometimes the defensiveness of some people (not specifically you) on these matters makes me think that they don't understand that the DM does not play against the players. It would be really silly if he did, because he would win instantly every single time.
I don't think anyone here is talking about mistakes.Now, the DM sometimes makes mistakes, who doesn't. But again, the players forgive him because even when he made mistakes, it's still with the intent of making the best game he can for the players.