billd91
Not your screen monkey (he/him)
I did get the word order wrong - Thorin calls Bilbo "child of the kindly West" in the Hobbit.Where are you getting this from? As Thomas said, authors treating them as "childlike" is just ignorance telling on itself. Are you confusing them with Kender? With Kender, those are explicitly childlike and playful and so on. Halflings are not. They're based on English country folk (or rather Tolkien's perception of them).
But even with that word order wrong, they're still sheltered by others willingly taking up worse burdens for them in their protection - Aragorn makes that pretty clear. So, I can still see how someone might take a comparison with hobbits, or halflings as filtered through D&D, in a less charitable light than Tolkien or you - and that's even though they're one of my favorite races in D&D.
And that's part of the problem with this whole topic - you can't tell someone else the comparison is harmless to them - whether it's comparison to a halfling, a hobbit, or English country folk. That's for them to decide. And they may or may not be reasonable about it, whatever reasonable means in this context.