D&D General Just sweeping dirty dishes under the rug: D&D, Sexism, and the '70s

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So after a bit of thought, I am going to try one last time to be specific and make the point I was trying to imply earlier. Which, I am sure, will go swimmingly....

@Bedrockgames - this is my position. First, I am as big of a defender and absolutist when it comes to free speech and the First Amendment as you will find. When it comes to the principles of free speech as embodied by the First Amendment, I can look at the ACLU and say, "Hold my beer."*

But I also think that we must maintain a strict line between protection from the government interfering with free speech (either a priori, aka censorship, or post hoc, aka punishment) and issues we have with cultural problems related to the "principles of free speech." I'm going to detail this a little more, because while I mostly agree with @Steampunkette my opinion is slightly different than hers.**

Most people are familiar with the saying that has been (incorrectly) attributed to Voltaire- "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." I think it's important to remember that, because otherwise we end up with the censorious words of those who have always sought to deprive minorities of speech before, twisted around yet again. "Speech I like is good, speech I don't like is bad; therefore speech I like is allowed and promoted, and speech I don't like should be censored." This is something that, for my own reasons, I cannot condone and I abhor. I would rather a million bigots speak out against me and my life than allow any other person to dictate who gets to speak. If you look at history you will see a common cause between those who want control speech is as old as time- for example, the Meese/Dworkin pact. The only thing those two could ever agree on is that they didn't want people to make decisions about their own speech- they would make it for them.

I believe that this is true because I have seen these principles play out over time. I have seen the positive impact that these principles of free speech have had in my life, and the life of others. I don't want anyone deciding what is, and isn't, appropriate or "good for me," because that is a weapon that is always used for ill, if not at the beginning, then certainly by the end.

And for that reason, I am an absolutist when it comes to speech and the state. When I hear people demanding that certain speech should be banned or censored because it's offense, that's foreign to my experience. Is there ever a case for it? .... I mean .... it might be that a certain, specific issue needs to be addressed; after WW2, for example, I can understand why (West) Germany put in the ban regarding Nazi imagery.

The thing is, principles (such as free speech) are something you either adhere to, or you don't. For a very long time, issues such as LGBTQI+ rights were defended in America by the principles of free speech; I cannot tell you how many times people who disagreed with those rights (because of their religion, or. moral qualms, or upbringing, or ignorance, or whatever) would nonetheless still defend the principles of free speech. They didn't agree with the speech, but they were allies of the principle. And over time, because the cause itself was good, it won out. Because the speech was heard, because people were convinced. And the reason the speech was heard was because there were a great number of people who defended that right, even when they didn't agree with the message.

On the other hand, I have repeatedly seen people who try to tell us what speech is good and what speech isn't in order to arrogate to themselves the sole authority to decide what we should and shouldn't hear. And they will always claim a justification- except instead of tarring people as bigots they would make arguments about "the children" and "just think, they'll try and get married, or adopt kids" or "what if we have to see men kissing on TV?"

It was terrible then, and it is terrible now.

BUT ... I would defend the rights of Illinois fans of the Austrian Painter to march and speak, but like Jake Blues .... I hate those people. I will defend their right to speak, because I believe in the principle, but there is no way in heck that I would ever associate with one of them. I defend the rights of people to speak and participate in the marketplace of ideas, but the whole point of speech is that it does have power- and people can agree or disagree with your speech, and there can be consequences for your speech. If you go around using the "N" word, for example, there are a lot of people that will rightfully judge you and not want to associate with you. Or if you call the women in your office "Sugar T***s" there will also be ... consequences. Which is good!

Okay, getting to the point finally. Here's the thing- in the past the vast majority of people didn't have much of a platform, did they? Maybe get a letter to the editor published? Maybe hold court in a bar? But getting your words to any kind of audience? Nope. Now we have all of these ways to speak ... to the whole world. But people be people. So when you're tweeting or gramin' or posting a message on facebook or posting a video on yuotube or tiktok all by yourself on your computer or phone ... it's there for the whole world to see. It's not that the consequences for speech are any different; instead, it's that people be stupid. Our little lizard brains aren't used to the fact that these communications go out to everyone, and are forever. And unlike the past mass media ... we don't have a whole process of revisions and fact checking and editors. I mean... think about what would history would be like if the New York Times printed articles from people who were drunk at 2am? Feel me?

So when complain about the "mobs" it's just ... people on social media. It's not a "free speech" issue- it's a cultural one. Until people internalize that it is to the world and forever, and maybe be a little more careful, it will keep happening. If you drunkenly say something stupid in a bar, you will probably be okay. Say the same thing on twitter or facebook? Good luck with that!

And as for corporations? I will reiterate the point I made before- corporations gonna corporate. Most corporations are just looking to latch on to popular speech and not make waves; same as it ever was. The only difference is that what is popular just changes. That happens.

Final point. I do think we need to start doing a better job instilling the virtue of the principles of free speech, because I do think that there has been a shift. But in the end, that's a social / education issue, not a First Amendment issue. Most of what people are lumping into "Free Speech" is just terrible tribalism conducted a different way.

Okay, that's it. I tried my best to be non-specific and not bring any current issues into this. That's my final post on the topic.


*I would say, however, that I am somewhat equivocal to negative about the very recent habit of trying to make all cases "free speech" cases. If you went to my recent legal brain teaser thread that I told you about you will see it starts with a quote I am fond of from Dallas v. Stranglin. More and more I see every type of case brought as a free speech case. Not every single act by every entity is speech, and doing so devalues core political speech and expressive conduct.

**I didn't see a preferred pronoun for you, so please correct me if I am not using the appropriate one.
 

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Oh yeah, it's true. Kinda.

GW is trying to have their cake and eat it too.

Warhammer is still plenty grimdark . . . but you wouldn't necessarily guess based on their more mass-market advertising with the Spes Mahrines front-and-center.

And then there are those middle-grade books published for kids!!

And it's a problem causing folks newer to the hobby to not realize that Warhammer was originally intended as satire on fascism, and start admiring the fascism . . . .

Yep. Imperium is terrible totalitarian dystopia... but its defenders are portrayed heroic shiny space knights, and since Guilliman's return* it has been led by tragically noble heroic demigod superhero. It has accidentally started to look way too much like some sort of fascism apologism.

(*The worst thing ever to happen to 40K IP.)
 
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BUT ... I would defend the rights of Illinois fans of the Austrian Painter to march and speak, but like Jake Blues .... I hate those people. I will defend their right to speak, because I believe in the principle, but there is no way in heck that I would ever associate with one of them. I defend the rights of people to speak and participate in the marketplace of ideas, but the whole point of speech is that it does have power- and people can agree or disagree with your speech, and there can be consequences for your speech. If you go around using the "N" word, for example, there are a lot of people that will rightfully judge you and not want to associate with you. Or if you call the women in your office "Sugar T***s" there will also be ... consequences. Which is good!

I appreciate the well thought out post Snarf. I just want to make one point on this paragraph.

I hope it is clear I am not endorsing people going around saying the N word or calling people Sugar T***s at the office. That isn't the kind of thing I have been speaking to (I'm talking more about people not finding evil orcs racist, thinking slavery in D&D is okay, not seeing a given image as problematic or not seeing D&D as filled with colonialist tropes)
 

There are so many games now the culture can't even keep track. SO of course you are going to have edgy stuff made that doesn't attract attention. But if you write or design for any publisher that has even a medium size reach, you are going to have to write around a lot of the social pressures we are talking about. And again, you can see this with cases like WOTC (which people want to discount but they are the flagship) blatantly saying Dark Sun would be impossible because of where sensibilities presently are at. And you can see it in books put out by other large and mid-sized publishers. And yes there are edgier publishers out there. But we also live in an age when what tends to happen to creatives who work with them is they get heavy guilt by association. So a lot of folks are reluctant to create things they otherwise might want to make. And this isn't how it was ten years ago. Something shifted. And I think it was for perhaps laudable reasons, but I think the gaming culture lost itself in the search for problematic content.

Ok.

So some unnamed people for which we have zero evidence of cannot produce creative products despite the fact that there are far, far more products being produced every year, many of which are incredibly creative, are “self censoring” without ever actually talking about it because if they talk about it they will get censored, exist in such numbers that the hobby is being stifled.

Would that just about sum things up.

Now since no one will actually tell me what things they are self censoring about, I’m left to guess. And I’m afraid my guesses aren’t very charitable.

So if my guesses are correct? Good riddance to bad rubbish.
 

You got it right, @Snarf Zagyg

And yeah. I mostly agree. Though I think the current bounds of incitement could be expanded a bit to better protect people from bigots, I still agree they have a right to their own opinions.

But if someone starts spouting Nazi propaganda within punching range of me, allllll bets are off. 'Cause there's some speech that is, -inherently- a threat to my safety, and I will respond accordingly.

And my father was a Drill Sergeant. And taught his kids how to protect themselves.
 

So when complain about the "mobs" it's just ... people on social media. It's not a "free speech" issue- it's a cultural one. Until people internalize that it is to the world and forever, and maybe be a little more careful, it will keep happening. If you drunkenly say something stupid in a bar, you will probably be okay. Say the same thing on twitter or facebook? Good luck with that!

I think it is both though because it is a cultural shift that is impacting peoples ability to express themselves. I'm not saying the government needs to step in, I am saying maybe we should be more understanding and forgiving of people who get drunk and say things on facebook, or who say things in the heat of a discussion online, or who take views that are slightly outside our own views (often times I see people getting castigating for disagreeing with folks over 2 percent of an issue they otherwise agree on). And this gets to the cruelty I was talking about before. People have been exceedingly cruel to one another online when a person is deemed an appropriate target (and sometimes the person has really done something bad, other times they obviously being misunderstood or their sins greatly exaggerated). Obviously we are coming to grips with changes in technology here. I think the good way forward is not to simply say "This is the way things are, people better watch what they say online" but make a point of always trying to see one another's humanity in these conversations
 

To be abundantly clear: this is not what I am saying (and not suggesting you are saying that is what I am saying). What I am saying is we have to push back against overreactions to speech, and we have to push back on mobbing behavior and social pressure and shaming to get people to conform to a set of conclusions about art that they might not agree with.
so what you are saying is that you want to censor the expressions of those that disagree with 'speech', whatever 'speech' is about here, you seem to keep that intentionally vague

I am saying we can tone down the hyperbole and look at what people are actually saying (and someone disagreeing with you that a given book is doing X versus Y doesn't make that person a monster or someone who needs to be cast out of polite society)
depending on what exactly they are saying, maybe they removed themselves from polite society and polite society just let's them know about it
 

so what you are saying is that you want to censor the expressions of those that disagree with 'speech', whatever 'speech' is about here, you seem to keep that intentionally vague

I am not saying we should censor anyone. No, what I am saying is we should be critical of overeactions, and we should refrain from joining in dogpiles or shaming people. If someone walks into a discussion and says "I don't think that orc looks like a racist depiction" they aren't the devil. They have an opinion you disagree with on art. A lot of these kinds of discussions escalate where both sides of the debates around them are completely dismissive of the other and start to actually dehumanize and isolate the other.
 

I am not saying we should censor anyone. No, what I am saying is we should be critical of overeactions, and we should refrain from joining in dogpiles or shaming people. If someone walks into a discussion and says "I don't think that orc looks like a racist depiction" they aren't the devil. They have an opinion you disagree with on art. A lot of these kinds of discussions escalate where both sides of the debates around them are completely dismissive of the other and start to actually dehumanize and isolate the other.

I think more civility would be amazing. And I posted before about that. But ... that's not really about the speech.

I would say that we have a lot of tribalism right now. And the structure of communication on the internet (allowing that distance, and often anonymity) also tends to create further issues. Not to mention most of us have gotten burned before by sealioning, etc., so it becomes hard to differentiate good-faith curiosity with trolling. And, of course, social media has realized that negative emotion (especially anger) drives engagement and those sweet, sweet ad dollars.

Oh, in addition .... so many things become flashpoints in stupid battles. Look at the Elon Musk stuff recently. Because of that, words and phrases get caught up in it, so you might be using a word or phrase that is associated with something or other and not even realize it- but the people reading you might believe that you are doing so on purpose.


Ugh. Depressed now. Need to get intravenous gin, stat!
 

I think that if you truly value free speech, and I do, then you have to recognize its power. To help, and to harm. And you have to act accordingly. Just as you shouldn't wave a gun around carelessly (I'm Canadian), you should not toss words around carelessly, either.

And to be careful, and caring, with your words, you have to consider the world from other perspectives. Especially from the perspective of those who have less power. Privileged folks have never really had to do this, and could largely get away with it. They could afford to be careless with their words. I am reminded of the conclusion of The Great Gatsby:
“They were careless people, Tom and Daisy - they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made.”

I think that freedom of speech, with certain limitations, is everyone's right. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't be expected to choose our words carefully. Or be exempt from social consequences when we don't. Most people have always had to fear those social consequences, on top of legal ones, so this is not new and alarming to them.
 

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