Another "women" venting thread.

[fusangite]

I, for one, appreciate it when I'm rejected indirectly and non-confrontationally. Be careful what you wish for. Imagine if every woman who didn't want to see you again went to the trouble of clearly communicating her reasons to you. You'd be begging for white lies and unreturned calls.

 

[Eolin]

I, for one, appreciate it when I'm rejected indirectly and non-confrontationally. Be careful what you wish for. Imagine if every woman who didn't want to see you again went to the trouble of clearly communicating her reasons to you. You'd be begging for white lies and unreturned calls.

How about just the ones I'm very interested in who kiss me and make plans for a second date?

I don't necessarily need the reasons, though its nice. A simple "Sorry, not interested" would be fine.

 

[Romnipotent]

Never trust women or traffic signals.

 

[Bront]

If anyone is interested, it'd appear I do NOT have appendicitus.

Hooray.

That's good news. I had mine removed and it took me over a month to recover from continued abdominal pain, but I've found my experince is generaly the exception.

 

[fusangite]

How about just the ones I'm very interested in who kiss me and make plans for a second date?

I don't necessarily need the reasons, though its nice. A simple "Sorry, not interested" would be fine.

Well, she has communicated "Sorry, not interested" to you just in a way that seems peculiar and annoying to you. Go and watch the Friends episode where Chandler is unable to stop saying "I'll call you" at the end of every date regardless of whether he wants to see the woman again.

 

[Eolin]

Well, she has communicated "Sorry, not interested" to you just in a way that seems peculiar and annoying to you. Go and watch the Friends episode where Chandler is unable to stop saying "I'll call you" at the end of every date regardless of whether he wants to see the woman again.

I'm not sure she has. Not entirely. She may be wrapped up in piece of art, have gotten into an auto accident, or just have forgotten how to use electronic devices.

Not really likely, but all possible. As are a host of other possibilities. I'm just assuming she's not interested. It is an assumption that grows more and more epistemically likely every day, but it isn't 100%.

It is peculiar and annoying because it does leave open other possibilities. If she isn't interested, then this makes it seem that I'm not important enough to be told so. As if in her mind I'm not worthy of consideration.

Or so it seems to me after 4 hours of sleep. My abdomen hurts again, though much less.

 

[fusangite]

You may not like this communication strategy but it's not that uncommon. So you had better get used to it. Essentially this is like you are trying to date in Brazil and are complaining that most of the women in whom you are interested only speak Portuguese.

 

[Teflon Billy]

I don't necessarily need the reasons, though its nice. A simple "Sorry, not interested" would be fine.

She has communicated "sorry Not Interested" clear as a bell.

• She said she's contact you.
• She hasn't contacted you.

That's all I'd need to see right there.

I mean, do you really need to hear those three words to get that message?

Dude...she hasn't called.

She's not interested.

If she is, she'll call back.

 

[Teflon Billy]

You may not like this communication strategy but it's not that uncommon. So you had better get used to it. Essentially this is like you are trying to date in Brazil and are complaining that most of the women in whom you are interested only speak Portuguese.

LOL

Stuart, I declare this "post of the day"!

 

[megamania]

Time to move on.