Mowgli, if my post came off as a complaint, I apologize. As Leif found out earlier, I am something of a rules guru for the groups I run with.
I was just wondering what rule set, or guidelines, you were drawing your resources from and pointing out where the rules, that most folks consider the standard, differed. I also like the idea of ambidexterity and run an AE/AU game for my own tabletop group.
As for the gear envy, of course we all fall prey to it at times. But as I said when discussing the severing blade, I saw what JA gifted my character for a weapon and do trust that things will be fair for all. With the armor, you will notice I didn't suggest you change anything. I was just pointing out a thought that came to me about the difficulties of trying to hang on to such armor should someone outside of the group discover you have it.
I think your relationship with the DM will be an asset to the group and welcome the chance to discover more of the Four Lands with you and the others.