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[Torm]

Torm, you have a very enlightened view (imho) and you sound like someone I'd be honored to meet.

Thankee. I'm feeling so very very loved today.

 

[Torm]

Wow, that's almost as cool a word as chunder...

Yep. Chunder is hard to beat.

Sometimes, O'Reilly makes me want to chunder. (And other times, I agree with him. )

 

[Gentlegamer]

Yep. Chunder is hard to beat.

Sometimes, O'Reilly makes me want to chunder. (And other times, I agree with him. )

And other times, you just throw up in your mouth a little . . .

 

[Darth K'Trava]

With the right other woman, THIS, in my experience is a LOT more like what actually happens than either of them getting jealous.

Heck, I know guys in regular relationships who have the tendency to stick foot into mouth on a regular basis.... One of which is why his girlfriends have broken up with him.... The last one, not that I know the exact cause of the breakup, sent him one of those BS "Dear John" letters as the only way to tell him she was breaking up... Which was total BS, IMO, as there's several ways to get in touch with him.... Mother, answering machine, email... just calling him!

Bill told me that I'd get my "hackles" up when he'd talk to other girls.... but then that was before I found out he likes to make a fool out of people.... like me. Saying one thing, meaning another and then blaming the whole eff-up on me!

 

[Darth K'Trava]

And other times, you just throw up in your mouth a little . . .

That's just plain.... EWWWW...!!!!

 

[Torm]

Bill told me that I'd get my "hackles" up when he'd talk to other girls.... but then that was before I found out he likes to make a fool out of people.... like me. Saying one thing, meaning another and then blaming the whole eff-up on me!

See, you can't even tell from that, because it sounds like he was trying to intentionally MAKE you uncomfortable with situations. :\

I know he's your friend, but I swear, the more you talk about this Bill, the less I like him.

 

[BOZ]

Yep. Chunder is hard to beat.

there's always fomunda.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

See, you can't even tell from that, because it sounds like he was trying to intentionally MAKE you uncomfortable with situations. :\

I know he's your friend, but I swear, the more you talk about this Bill, the less I like him.

Usually he's a pretty decent guy.... except for that one instance.... I don't think he was being intentional, it's just that he's got lots of female friends..... and it's almost like a "competition".... but then since he's done that sorta stuff, I don't trust him like I used to. He's still a friend but never more than that.

At least he isn't as bad as another friend who, because of a few bad instances, think all women are evil. And seemingly like to point this out to me oh a regular basis. And can only come up with "sorry" when I told him over the weekend that I considered it an insult against me as well because I'm female as well.... :\

Makes me glad I'm single.... less hassle and stress.....

 

[Darth K'Trava]

there's always fomunda.

Maybe you guys need to start a "I'm gonna be more disgusting than you" thread!

 

[Queen_Dopplepopolis]

And really, I think that is what jealousy in women is about (ladies here can correct me if I'm wrong for them, of course) - whether someone is coming between them and the relationship that is already theirs or threatening their kids somehow. With men it usually seems more territorial.

I think jealousy in women is very much territorial... and some women have a broader or narrower sense of what their "territory" means. Example - a couple of my girlfriends are HYPER-Christian. They go so far as to define their "territory" with their significant others as thoughts and dreams: if you think about another woman, you are cheating on her. As such, they become jealous of EVERYTHING - to the point of attempting to monitor and regulate their man's thoughts.

Other women that I've met have a very lose definition of where their "territory" ends and begins - letting their significant others engage in activities that I cannot even begin to wrap my brain around (who knew that it wasn't cheating unless they were *having sex*? I didn't!)

Now, that said, I've got a pretty broad sense of "territory" (ask The_Universe, he knows ). But, not nearly as extreme (in either direction) as some women I've met.

((Torm - your wife has got to be the most comfortable, confident women on the face of the the planet. For that, she deserves mad props.))