Yeah, I know how religion meddles in other countries. I'm discussing things from a US (and possibly UK, or even "western") perspective.
What prompted me to ask the question was how the original statement was made in response to another statement.
In response was said:
One says, government shouldn't meddle in one's life. The response is, "I have the exact opposite view," and religion shouldn't meddle in one's life. Then I ask how does religion meddle in one's life? And everyone points out how religion meddles in government. Well, that's not the exact opposite -- that is actually nearly the same. Both are lamenting government meddling in lives.
Even when I asked how religion meddles, everyone's response is to point out how government meddles. See? I agree that government meddles in lives (as you've given examples). And I agree that religion meddles in government.
If government pokes you with a stick, even at the direction of religion, it is *government* poking you with a stick. When someone says, "I don't like government poking me with a stick," it doesn't make sense to say, "I feel the exact opposite; I don't like religion poking me with a stick." That's not "the exact opposite".
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