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[Desdichado]

A cheerful update on my so called life:

She's pregnant.

She hasn't told me yet.

She doesn't know I know.

Wee hee

With yours, or this new guy's?

Either way, ouch, that bites. Sorry, mang.

 

[Krieg]

Congrats Krieg

That wasn't necessarily a good thing there D!

With yours, or this new guy's?

I have no idea. I'm guessing she at least believes it is his, but there is no way to be sure.

Either way, ouch, that bites. Sorry, mang.

Yeah, didn't exactly make things less complicated.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

That's an "ouchie" situation either way.... depends on how far she is along or if she was seeing this guy behind your back while you two were together... (not stuff you'd want to hear/know about but has to be a possibility..)

Hope things work out somehow. It'd be nice if the kid was yours...

 

[diaglo]

That wasn't necessarily a good thing there D!

life is always a good thing.

diaglo "can't have kids" Ooi

 

[Mystery Man]

I have no idea. I'm guessing she at least believes it is his, but there is no way to be sure.

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[Krieg]

That's an "ouchie" situation either way.... depends on how far she is along or if she was seeing this guy behind your back while you two were together... (not stuff you'd want to hear/know about but has to be a possibility..)

I honestly don't think it was going on before I knew about it, but the point is pretty much moot now anyways.

Hope things work out somehow. It'd be nice if the kid was yours...

Me too on both accounts, although in the latter case it would make things even more complicated.

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In Ohio you cannot divorce a pregnant woman, and when the kid is born it is mine until proven otherwise. So the burden will be on her to prove it is not mine. If it is mine I will be fighting for custody.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

I honestly don't think it was going on before I knew about it, but the point is pretty much moot now anyways.

Yup... sad that it is...

Me too on both accounts, although in the latter case it would make things even more complicated.

I agree.

In Ohio you cannot divorce a pregnant woman, and when the kid is born it is mine until proven otherwise. So the burden will be on her to prove it is not mine. If it is mine I will be fighting for custody.

Ouch! I don't know how it is here..... But if it's yours, then hell yes! Fight for custody. And if you can prove she's a totally unfit mother (without making it look like you're out for revenge...), then they'd award you with total custody.

 

[Steve Jung]

In Ohio you cannot divorce a pregnant woman, and when the kid is born it is mine until proven otherwise. So the burden will be on her to prove it is not mine. If it is mine I will be fighting for custody.

Keep up the fight. I'm sorry that she's hiding this from you.

 

[Desdichado]

I don't know which is worse: do you want the baby to be yours, or would you rather simply wash your hands of that whole complication?

 

[Krieg]

I don't know which is worse: do you want the baby to be yours, or would you rather simply wash your hands of that whole complication?

I want it to be mine, even if it does raise the difficulty level several orders of magnitude.