It may have sounded that way to you, but I don't believe it was.
Fair enough.
I don't feel that's true. Many of your posts in this thread have seemed to me to be dismissive, defensive, and containing a lot of "absolute" statements. However, with lack of clear cut proof that such was occuring, I chose instead to ignore those aspects, and just concentrate on the subject of the conversation.
No, I don't believe one is. Just because one
feels defensive, is not proof that something wrong was done to you. And if you really felt his posts rose to that level, then at ENWorld, one is only allowed to report it, ignore it, or politely
respond to it. I've learned the hard way here that taking it into one's own hands is not accepted here at ENWorld.
He could have, but leaving the conversation is not only an accepted way of dealing with this, but one that's encouraged by the moderation. He didn't do anything wrong by leaving the conversation, and in the eyes of this sites moderation, he did the right thing.
Well, there's always PM'ing.