Grimstaff said:
I'm sorry, what were we talking about, again...?
Sorry grimstaff. I was editing my post. Cadfan's point seems to be that Bob was unreasonable, because it is more important Bob to suffer through an evening playing a game that he will not enjoy just to keep the crew together.
I disagree.
A real friend would accept that their friends don't always share all the same interests (it's nice when it happens). Now, if, it was a one shot only deal, I don't think it would be unreasonable to ask Bob to try 4e for one evening. However, if it is to be a regular thing or if he refuses to play a one-shot, they would be real friends by accepting that Bob doesn't want to play and find something else to do with him at another even if semi irregularly, because of time constraints. Or better, find something everyone can enjoy.
Expecting Bob to take a hit for the team every week just to keep the crew together, as I read Canfan's point to be, is not being a friend. It is being selfish.
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