So, the family spent a big chunk of Saturday watching it. It was me (uber geek), 15 year old son (who loves MCU, hates DC movies) and my wife ( general fan of superhero movies). The wife and I also generally don't like Snyder's style. But I have read for years from people who love him that his movies are big and grand and are like Operas. So, I cleared my mind and went into the movie with that expectation.
Sidenote-- I didn't think the original was bad just very forgettable.
We all enjoyed the Snyder cut. As others have said, I don't think this 4 hour monster would ever be a theatrical cut, but it was good. If you can get in synch with his style it is a sweeping epic.