Ryujin
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I think that the learned response, in such cases, should be making the go-to asking yourself, "Do I really need to respond to that RIGHT NOW?"Exactly.
So, the limbic system works the way it does because that fast emotional response is used to drive potential fight/flee/freeze reactions, and other behavior which has to happen NOW if they are going to be useful.
Unfortunately, this doesn't work for things that require deeper understanding of the situation - like taking a curve fast on a motorcycle, or navigating a financial crisis.
Unfortunately, for me, that learned response doesn't seem to work for women. My initial gut reaction is almost always the right one and my, "Maybe she's all right and I can giver her a chance?" results in potential years of suffering
