I wish more people understood the difference between a preference (something you wish was done differently) and a problem (something that causes damage or harm). Instead, problems keep getting dismissed as preferences, and preferences keep getting conflated into problems.
Whether or not a weapon deals damage on a miss, how many times a fighter or wizard gets to go "blam!", or what a druid gets to wear are all PREFERENCES...you can change them with a house rule. Conversely: lack of representation, cultural appropriation, racist content, and so forth are all PROBLEMS and you need way more than house-rules to change them.