Most monasteries won’t let women stay overnight on their premises. Do you recall which one it was?A friend of mine used to go on holiday in a monastery to get away from the world for a while. She wasn't even specifically Catholic, but found the isolation refreshing.
Or do you mean a cloister?
I’m a lifelong practicing Catholic, and I agree.There's a lot to say about Catholicism, but the church knows how to design the heck out of sacred spaces.
But one of my favorite sacred spaces (in the USA) is a small Presbyterian chapel near my house. I went to a wedding there, and it was small, and generally dimly lit- mostly by small windows, relatively low on the walls.
But behind the altar was a simple, large (10’x15’ or so) cross of darkly stained wood. It was illuminated by light from a highly placed skylight, accented with a halo of recessed spotlights. The effect was amazingly effective.






