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This thread is about various recent posts about WotC hiring a women game designer and the reaction online. It seems a few people are upset. This may also be a ramble.
So first things 1st. I am a red blooded hetrosexual male who is 39 years old, and I was raised as what would be called a liberal in the USA. I also live in New Zealand which I like to kind of think as the Canada of the South Pacific- we do not tend towards extremes. politically we tend to be left of centre (far left in USA terms) but the centre right is better at winning elections (generally its something like 2-1 ratio over last 100 years).
I also regard myslef as a mild feminist. By that I mean women should be giving equal opportunity and choices as a male. Her in NZ there are more women at university than men for example but there is still a gap in the average wages. I am not an idealist though as the reality is men do not get pregnant (time off work basically), and men are also stronger (and those jobs tend to pay more- tradesmen, truck drivers, port workers etc). You will never close the gender gap in wages IMHO the best one can do equal pay in the same fields with variation of length of tenure, skill and things like office politics. I do not subscribe to the theory that women can do anything (I have seen it tried, doesn't work) however. To clarify that is jobs that require physical strength, my wife earns more money than me and I have been with here 17 years. Piece of advice to some younger readers when you are in a relationship its all about her, make her feel special daily (well maybe weekly it has been 17 years). Happy wife happy life. Learn to cook and clean, and how to clean the bathroom (my wife has not cleaned a toilet since 2004, I barely hang out washing whatever works).
Now I am aware of the me to movement in the USA and some of the shocking stories that have been coming out. For the most part we do not have it here in New Zealand as we are one of the most progressive countries in the world especially when it comes to women's rights. For example women got universal suffrage here in 1893 IIRC, we legalized things like gay marriage, prostitution and I think marijuana reform won't be to far away. We are not perfect here of course bad things happen to women, one left my wife's workplace do to sexual harassment but it doesn't seem as endemic here. We have our problems with things like family violence of course.
Much like the USA D&D/roleplaying/wargaming here is a sausage fest. It has never really been that noticeable to me however as even in 1996 3/6 players were female and I have played with my wife for the last 15 years and the last group I played with outside my personal group was 3/7 females. Sexual harassment has never been tolerated at my table. Physical assault when we were younger however was a thing (the guys hit each other, disruptive players may have been hit or had things thrown at them by other players). A dice container to the head tends to shut up those type of players I noticed (circa 1996 we were all 15-18). That was guys being stupid, the females were never touched. Things turned to poo however when the players started dating and inevitably broke up badly but that just part of life I suppose.
Sorry for the ramble this is a rough explanation so people kind of understand where I am coming from.
So what do I think about the progressive issues, WotC hiring a women etc. Generally I do not care one way or the other, I am not a SJW, or bigot. With such a small design team I would prefer it if WoTC hired experienced game designers. Unfortunately this means men as a lot of the active designers these days are male and worked on previous editions of the game- Mearls for 3 and 4E, Wolfgang Bauer (Kobold Press as far back as AD&D). I don't think this has been a deliberate policy of exclusion but the original designers were all male and the game traditionally has been top heavy with male players. Most designers since Gygax and Co started off as players/fans and got involved that way so I would expect more designers to be male than female. Weiss is the only major female designer of repute I can think of and Lisa Stevens seems a very smart business women over at Paizo and before that in the 90's when she looked at what went wrong with TSR.
So basically pro meritocratic when it comes to my preferences and this is where it comes to be a problem. If I was hiring a D&D designer I would want someone who had either worked on a previous edition of D&D or at least a successful RPG, or had design credits on 3pp adventures with a proven track record of quality. Unfortunately in recent years WotC has been shedding staff rather than hiring them and the lack of Dragon and Dungeon Magazines for the last decade has also cut off another source of new blood male or female. Generally I do not like pandering and beaten over the head with the latest social justice cause. It seems this new hire has been hired due to social media presence over chops in game design, personally I do not watch D&D on youtube so I am semi oblivious to that side of things. From a business PoV however that may not be a bad thing. But hey she has an opportunity may as well give her a chance its good D&D is hiring again is more important IMHO.
In some ways I am still old fashioned. I do not really care what 2 consenting adults get up to in the bedroom (as long as its not to weird like those Germans who killed and ate a consenting adult). I did not buy Storm Kings Thunder for example due to low ratings on ENworld and other places and I found out about the gay marriage thing in it. That is not rally something I want to read about or deal with in my gaming for much the same reason I do not like gay porn. If Jeremey Crawford wants to include it due to his RL influences that is on him, if I do not buy it that is on me. I have not bought Curse of Strahd or Tomb of Annihilation either just to clear. However I do not mind gay storylines and plotlines as long as I am not beaten over the head with it and it is well done (eg Renly in GoT). Gay players are also welcome in my groups although I have had a total of 3 in 20 odd years plus maybe a couple of more ( I don't ask/care). Note I also have a very slow turnover rate in my players, I consider a player of 8 years as short term my most recent player I have been gaming with for 4 years, the others, 8,12 and 15, the other 3 that left due to RL lasted 10 (2000-2010),11 (1996-2007) and 14 (1998-2012) years. If they piss me off I boot them out just like anyone else- I boot players for being to disruptive/idiotic (CN types fireballing the party/pissing the other players off) and bad personal hygiene being major ones. I ormally only have 1 maybe 2 "floater" type players some of them become new permanents others don't fit in or leave after a year or two when they leave town.
I admit I am not perfect, I try to learn/get better (no one has been hit since around 1999).
So first things 1st. I am a red blooded hetrosexual male who is 39 years old, and I was raised as what would be called a liberal in the USA. I also live in New Zealand which I like to kind of think as the Canada of the South Pacific- we do not tend towards extremes. politically we tend to be left of centre (far left in USA terms) but the centre right is better at winning elections (generally its something like 2-1 ratio over last 100 years).
I also regard myslef as a mild feminist. By that I mean women should be giving equal opportunity and choices as a male. Her in NZ there are more women at university than men for example but there is still a gap in the average wages. I am not an idealist though as the reality is men do not get pregnant (time off work basically), and men are also stronger (and those jobs tend to pay more- tradesmen, truck drivers, port workers etc). You will never close the gender gap in wages IMHO the best one can do equal pay in the same fields with variation of length of tenure, skill and things like office politics. I do not subscribe to the theory that women can do anything (I have seen it tried, doesn't work) however. To clarify that is jobs that require physical strength, my wife earns more money than me and I have been with here 17 years. Piece of advice to some younger readers when you are in a relationship its all about her, make her feel special daily (well maybe weekly it has been 17 years). Happy wife happy life. Learn to cook and clean, and how to clean the bathroom (my wife has not cleaned a toilet since 2004, I barely hang out washing whatever works).
Now I am aware of the me to movement in the USA and some of the shocking stories that have been coming out. For the most part we do not have it here in New Zealand as we are one of the most progressive countries in the world especially when it comes to women's rights. For example women got universal suffrage here in 1893 IIRC, we legalized things like gay marriage, prostitution and I think marijuana reform won't be to far away. We are not perfect here of course bad things happen to women, one left my wife's workplace do to sexual harassment but it doesn't seem as endemic here. We have our problems with things like family violence of course.
Much like the USA D&D/roleplaying/wargaming here is a sausage fest. It has never really been that noticeable to me however as even in 1996 3/6 players were female and I have played with my wife for the last 15 years and the last group I played with outside my personal group was 3/7 females. Sexual harassment has never been tolerated at my table. Physical assault when we were younger however was a thing (the guys hit each other, disruptive players may have been hit or had things thrown at them by other players). A dice container to the head tends to shut up those type of players I noticed (circa 1996 we were all 15-18). That was guys being stupid, the females were never touched. Things turned to poo however when the players started dating and inevitably broke up badly but that just part of life I suppose.
Sorry for the ramble this is a rough explanation so people kind of understand where I am coming from.
So what do I think about the progressive issues, WotC hiring a women etc. Generally I do not care one way or the other, I am not a SJW, or bigot. With such a small design team I would prefer it if WoTC hired experienced game designers. Unfortunately this means men as a lot of the active designers these days are male and worked on previous editions of the game- Mearls for 3 and 4E, Wolfgang Bauer (Kobold Press as far back as AD&D). I don't think this has been a deliberate policy of exclusion but the original designers were all male and the game traditionally has been top heavy with male players. Most designers since Gygax and Co started off as players/fans and got involved that way so I would expect more designers to be male than female. Weiss is the only major female designer of repute I can think of and Lisa Stevens seems a very smart business women over at Paizo and before that in the 90's when she looked at what went wrong with TSR.
So basically pro meritocratic when it comes to my preferences and this is where it comes to be a problem. If I was hiring a D&D designer I would want someone who had either worked on a previous edition of D&D or at least a successful RPG, or had design credits on 3pp adventures with a proven track record of quality. Unfortunately in recent years WotC has been shedding staff rather than hiring them and the lack of Dragon and Dungeon Magazines for the last decade has also cut off another source of new blood male or female. Generally I do not like pandering and beaten over the head with the latest social justice cause. It seems this new hire has been hired due to social media presence over chops in game design, personally I do not watch D&D on youtube so I am semi oblivious to that side of things. From a business PoV however that may not be a bad thing. But hey she has an opportunity may as well give her a chance its good D&D is hiring again is more important IMHO.
In some ways I am still old fashioned. I do not really care what 2 consenting adults get up to in the bedroom (as long as its not to weird like those Germans who killed and ate a consenting adult). I did not buy Storm Kings Thunder for example due to low ratings on ENworld and other places and I found out about the gay marriage thing in it. That is not rally something I want to read about or deal with in my gaming for much the same reason I do not like gay porn. If Jeremey Crawford wants to include it due to his RL influences that is on him, if I do not buy it that is on me. I have not bought Curse of Strahd or Tomb of Annihilation either just to clear. However I do not mind gay storylines and plotlines as long as I am not beaten over the head with it and it is well done (eg Renly in GoT). Gay players are also welcome in my groups although I have had a total of 3 in 20 odd years plus maybe a couple of more ( I don't ask/care). Note I also have a very slow turnover rate in my players, I consider a player of 8 years as short term my most recent player I have been gaming with for 4 years, the others, 8,12 and 15, the other 3 that left due to RL lasted 10 (2000-2010),11 (1996-2007) and 14 (1998-2012) years. If they piss me off I boot them out just like anyone else- I boot players for being to disruptive/idiotic (CN types fireballing the party/pissing the other players off) and bad personal hygiene being major ones. I ormally only have 1 maybe 2 "floater" type players some of them become new permanents others don't fit in or leave after a year or two when they leave town.
I admit I am not perfect, I try to learn/get better (no one has been hit since around 1999).