Conaill said:
Yeah, that's why they call it a "moral dilemma", right? Face, it, such dilemma's do exist, and some DM's enjoy putting the paladin in them and seeing him squirm. 
The trick is not to punish the Paladin for choosing Law over Good or vice versa, but to judge him on his effort in finding that "secret option 3".
In the case of a country with evil laws, there's a bunch of options available:
- refuse to enter the country
- try to reform the law
- try to prevent the law from being broken
- redefine "legitimate authority" in the paladin's code (e.g. paladin helping freedom fighters)
- the paladin may have an alternative Code that supercedes local laws (I'm all in favor of having Paladin players draft their own Code)
- personally take the blame for breaking the unjust law
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So Lela, what happened in your session? Did everything go over well? Did the paladin player enjoy the session? Did you get him to squirm at least a little?
refuse to enter the country: the if I close my eyes evil isn't happening option.
- try to reform the law: the let evil happen until some later date when I can get aorund to stopping it option.
try to prevent the law from being broken: the I'm all knowing and all powerufl option.
redefine "legitimate authority" in the paladin's code (e.g. paladin helping freedom fighters): the hey cool I'm the GM option.
- the paladin may have an alternative Code that supercedes local laws (I'm all in favor of having Paladin players draft their own Code): the I hope all those wishes I wrote when I was a wizard in the alst camapign give me enoughh practice to actually be able to write a code that can work option.
- personally take the blame for breaking the unjust law: the ha-ha its fun when dm fiat kills you option.
Basically option 3 rarely if ever is there in the catch 22 situations. The GM sets up the situation, and it usually goes something like this. You walk into the town sqaure and see and see a organized pit of wood, it looks like amybe there will eb a bonfire tonight. PC"Hey maybe it's a cleabration, lets ask wha't going on." Commoner" what the wood, yeah according to local ordinance 125 we are buring the wich at thes take tonight, as all wiches must be burned accoridng to law." PCs"so your burning an evil wich tonight" Comoner"well she isn't exactly evil, she's used her spells to heal people when they were sick, she saved my kids when they fell into the river, the only time she's used her powers in public though is when she defended the town against the roc raiders, then the guard saw her casting spells and so she was taken captive and here we are" PC paladin"Ack so do we save her and i lose my status or do we watch her burn and i lose my status"