What do you hope to achieve by this comment?
Because I was trying to meet you in the middle and reach some kind of understanding with my last comment.
What do you hope to achieve by this comment? It doesn't seem to pertain to anything I wrote.
There is a wonderful scene in "The Golden Oecumene" where one character is trying to say "Hello" to another character via the internet, and sends a software agent to deliver the message and the software agent says, "Would you like to download 200 files pertaining to memories of the person I represent has about you, past communications between the two of you, bits of poetry to provide emotional context for how he feels about you and his current emotional state before I read the message?" And I feel so seen in that scene, and yet when you prepend to your prior message, "Because I was trying to meet you in the middle and reach some kind of understanding with my last comment." I am afraid it doesn't help me understand your meaning at all.
But I will try to answer your query seriously by providing transparently as I can some of the context for my statements, both on the superficial and the deeper level.
So, returning to my statement:
As a software developer, I feel compelled to ask you, what first paragraph do you mean by that? Also what thing is it that you do?
By this I meant I didn't understand your sentence: "Your first paragraph is clear to me, and I agree with it. I do the same thing." The first paragraph of the post you quoted was: "For the post you don't understand? The premise is pretty simple, and it's in the post." It didn't seem to me that your comment could be about that statement, so I didn't (and don't) know what it pertained to. Likewise, I couldn't figure out what you were doing that was the same as me. At a deeper level I was frustrated by your brevity because you had chastised me about being too verbose, but here you had pronouns and referents that were basically null pointers I couldn't dereference. I was hoping you would see how confusing your bare statement was and maybe have a chuckle about it.
"I believe so. We've been doing it for like 14 years."
I said this in order to answer in the affirmative and provide supporting evidence for my belief that my players enjoy playing with me. It seems unreasonable given that I have no leverage over them to think that they'd keep playing for 14 years and they didn't enjoy it.
"Seems like a strange question to me."
I said this because I was beginning to sense hostility in your comments, starting with the one prior to this one. I don't understand why you would imply there is any chance I am forcing people to play with me against their will. That you later contextualize this as "meeting me in the middle and reach some kind of understanding" seems to suggest that I'm not wrong. I don't know. Your thought is opaque to me.
"Whether or not someone is "onboard with the game" is pretty irrelevant to me...."
I should preface the next section by saying that I honestly have no idea what you mean by "If they're onboard with the game, then that's also how I look at it." Once again we have a pronoun "that" which I have no idea what it references. Your thought here is concealed and vague to me. But, it seems to pertain to the idea that if people are having fun, then there isn't a problem. And to a great extent I agree. It's a game. It's a leisure activity. If everyone involved is having fun, then great. But "everyone having fun" doesn't really pertain to whether or not something is a railroad. It can be a railroad and everyone can have fun. I refer to this as "Everybody On Board the Choo Choo". If the style of play is a railroad, people can still enjoy it. So I'm trying to explain why I don't think everyone being on board is really relevant to judging whether it is fun, and in particular why I don't really think everyone consenting to the railroad makes it less of a railroad.
"Well, you aren't me."
I said this because by this point you'd gotten down right insulting. As a general rule, unasked for advice doesn't get more gentle by starting with "If I were you..." because contextualizes the advice as a warning and makes it seem less friendly rather than more friendly. But also once again we have another pronoun "that" which I can't tell what it actually refers to. Leave it at what? You've got a whole series of statements where you know what you are thinking about but you haven't actually written it down clearly.
"There are two important things to realize about the dialogue I am trying to have..."
Here I wanted to correct two possible misunderstandings it seemed you might be having. A number of posters have made the main thrust of the criticism of my argument that I was trying to justify railroading and that my table must be one characterized by a large amount of railroading. Another frequent criticism is that I have some private definition of railroading that really not how it might be understood by most people. Both of these statements are false. And I felt I needed to address it because you were saying things like: "people clearly see the word differently." and I'm not sure that they do. I think the disagreement tends to be more on practice and application than what the word really means. Yes, there are posters that are trying through various means to get to a qualitative meaning for the word rather than a quantitative one, either through "consent" or "outcome" being binary, but I think the underlying disagreement there isn't so much over what the term means but over practice. That is "consent" seems at first glance to give you a really nice sharp line for when the quantity of railroading is "too much" and so you can then say "objectively this is railroading and its bad". Similar arguments apply to the use of "outcome". But I don't think we actually disagree much over what the word means.
And as for your suggestion that I not use the word "railroad", well, I don't think that's very practical. At best it would be a case of Euphemism Treadmill. And that's why I said "that would just end up being recognized as a euphemism for "railroading" and we'd be back in the same position."
Clear?