I love it when people start arguing about what they did and did not say.
In an internet chat forum.
Where everything is recorded in writing.
It's searchable. Quotable, even.
You have complete control over the clarity and intent of your writing. If folks are misunderstanding the things you write, or if they're twisting your words, you can make your writing more clear...you can make your words less twisty. Just as an example: you could maybe stop using absolutes like "best," "worst," "always," "never," "nobody," and "everybody."