Yeah. Never, ever judge a group by the actions of a few jerks. Point out the jerks and stand up to them. But, try not to let the jerks ruin your enjoyment of stuff. Fantasy as a genre has had to shake things up a LOT over the past few years. And that's taking time to sort of percolate down through. I know that patience is so hard in the face of just so much infuriating, mindless, stupidity. But, at the end of the day, time is the only thing that will actually resolve all this stuff.
And, stepping back, it IS getting better. As much as it might not seem like it sometimes, it really is. Baby steps. Always baby steps.