Jester David
Hero
Funny thing. Disagreeing with a rule doesn't mean it doesn't exist.I strongly disagree that society has a general rule about that. I may be wrong, especially about the US, a place that I only know second-hand. For the part of society that I got to meet in person, though, this is not even an issue that is worthy of having social rules about, especially general rules.
When people argue "well, I don't think _____ is racist" it very seldom looks good, even if they are right.