I agree, Shadow Magic, Warlocks, Binding, Pact Magic, Truenaming- these aren't the things that make tables quake with fear. Psionics kind of does, but it's a little unfair, since most of the complaints against 3e Psionics came from a blatant misunderstanding about how power points functioned- I've heard plenty of lurid tales of Psions going "nova" and dumping all their power points on an encounter to melt faces, despite the fact that they need to pay for "upcasting" their powers and they had a limit on how many power points they could use to augment a power.
The real problem children for 3e were things that enhanced existing magic systems: Divine Metamagic, "free metamagic" ala the Incantatrix, Planar Shepherds changing the laws of action economy, Epice Spellcasting, and, of course, printing new spells when there were already plenty of spells in the PHB that were problematic. When we already have Gate, Polymorph Any Object, Shapechange, Simulacrum, and Wish, do we really need Mind R*pe or Genesis?