James Gasik
We don't talk about Pun-Pun
Possibly because the lesson that's learned is that Charm Person is completely unreliable and thus, shouldn't be used. Not a big deal if you can freely prepare different spells, but significantly more annoying if your class isn't allowed to change spells out as easily.Sometimes it feels like any obstacle, set back, or loss is perceived as a great injustice against players. Why is it so bad that players might waste a spell slot once with hold or charm person? Its a learning lesson and heightens tension. Why do people focus so much on this small """feels bad""" moment?
And if people aren't attempting to use Charm Person to interact with NPC's socially, they might just decide, in response to the negative reinforcement, to just take the path of least resistance- in this case, murderhoboing their way through the campaign!